Ngày Valentine 14/2 có đúng là con gái phải tặng quà cho con trai?

Ngày 14/2 hàng năm, dù không chính thức là ngày lễ của bất kỳ quốc gia nào, nhưng được người dân trên toàn thế giới công nhận là ngày lễ Tình nhân.

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Tuy nhiên, câu chuyện “ai tặng quà cho ai” bỗng nhiên lại khiến ngày lễ tưởng như sẽ giúp tình yêu thăng hoa trở thành những cuộc cãi vã không hồi kết. Nguyên nhân lại xuất phát từ một ngày sau Valentine đúng một tháng: “Valentine trắng” vào ngày 14/3.

Cụ thể, nhiều người cho rằng Valentine đúng là con gái tặng quà cho người mình thích để bày tỏ tình cảm của bản thân. Người con trai sau đó 1 tháng sẽ có dịp để đáp lễ vào ngày Valentine trắng.

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Vô lý…

Vậy có nghĩa rằng, ngày con gái ai cũng nghĩ mình được nhận quà, nay không những chẳng được nhận mà còn phải vặn óc ra nghĩ xem nên tặng gì.

Nhưng sự thật thì ai phải tặng quà cho ai mới đúng?

Ngày Valentine chính gốc là từ đâu?

Muốn biết ai phải tặng ai, chúng ta hãy đi tìm nguồn gốc chính xác của ngày Valentine. Ngày này có khá nhiều truyền thuyết liên quan, nhưng dưới đây là giả thuyết được nhiều người chấp nhận nhất.

Theo đó, Valentine là một vị linh mục dưới thời Hoàng đế La Mã Claudius II vào thế kỷ thứ 3. Vào thời kỳ đó, Đế Quốc La Mã tiến hành nhiều cuộc chiến tranh đẫm máu, nhưng không được người dân ủng hộ, dẫn đến chuyện nhiều thanh niên trai tráng không chịu nhập ngũ. Hoàng đế tin rằng nguyên nhân là do đàn ông La Mã không muốn rời bỏ gia đình, vợ con, nên ra lệnh cấm tất cả đám cưới hoặc lễ đính hôn để tập trung cho chiến tranh.

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Thánh Valentine – người chấp nhận tử vì đạo để bảo vệ các cặp tình nhân

Valentine và Thánh Marius đã chống lại lệnh vua ban. Họ tiếp tục tổ chức lễ cưới cho các cặp đôi trong bí mật. Khi bị phát hiện, Valentine bị tống giam và được Hoàng Đế Claudius II đưa cho hai lựa chọn: hoặc cải đạo sang ngoại giáo, nơi ngăn cấm chuyện cưới hỏi, hoặc giữ nguyên và chết. Valentine đã chấp nhận tử vì đạo.

Buổi chiều trước khi ra pháp trường, ông đã gửi một tấm thiệp cho cô con gái mù lòa bẩm sinh của người cai ngục, người đã được ông chữa lành bằng phép lạ trước đó, và ký tên “dal vostro Valentino” (Your Valentine – Valentine của em). Đó cũng chính là “tấm thiệp Valentine” đầu tiên trên thế giới.

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Truyền thuyết này được công bố trên nhiều tài liệu lịch sử và phương tiện truyền thông, trong đó có “The History Channel” nổi tiếng của Mỹ. Valentine cũng trở thành vị thánh bổn mạng trong ngày mà các cặp đôi trao đổi thông điệp tình yêu với nhau.

Đọc đến đây, chắc bạn cũng hiểu rồi đúng không. Thánh Valentine là nam, vậy chiếu theo đúng nguồn gốc của ngày Valentine, con trai là người chủ động tặng quà cho người con gái.

Valentine trắng thì sao?

Valentine trắng thực chất có nguồn gốc từ Nhật Bản. Ở Nhật, ngày Valentine 14/2 là ngày người con gái tặng quà cho con trai, nhằm nói lên tâm tư tình cảm của mình. Sau đó một tháng là ngày Valentine trắng – 14/3, thời điểm con trai đáp lễ lại bằng một món quà tương xứng.

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Tại Nhật, ngày Valentine 14/2 con gái sẽ tặng quà cho con trai

Không rõ lý do vì sao chỉ duy người Nhật lại có tục lệ này, chỉ biết, Valentine trắng được quốc gia này tổ chức lần đầu tiên vào năm 1978, và được gọi là “ngày đáp lễ”.

Dần dần, “văn hóa tình nhân trắng” lan truyền ra nhiều quốc gia khác trong châu Á, nổi bật nhất là Hàn Quốc và Trung Quốc.

Kết

Nhìn chung, bạn muốn theo phong tục ở đâu thì tùy, nhưng chớ nên quan trọng việc “ai phải tặng ai”. Xét cho cùng khi đã thích và yêu mến ai đó, bạn chẳng cần đến một dịp gì để tặng quà cho họ đâu.

Dù sao thì cũng… chúc các FA có một Valentine đại thắng.

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